Gay AA Meetings and more
Gay AA meetings
This is a good site for a partial listing of Gay AA Meetings by State. But, you can look at any meeting list and it will tell you which meetings are gay (for the most part).
Gay Everything Anonymous - New York City
This site has Gay listings for AA, Alanon, CA, NA, Cocaine, Co-dependents, Debtors, Overeaters, sexual, and much more! Great Site! Especially if you're in NYC